decadent philly

Decadent is an exclusive FLINTA party based in Philly that centers kink, fetish, and gothic music.

FLINTA is a German acronym that translates to "woman, lesbian, intersex, nonbinary, trans, agender". If you are FLINTA and into kink, this party is for you.

Please do not take pictures or use your cell phone while on the dance floor. We aim to cultivate a space where people can express themselves (through fashion, dancing, flirting, cruising, etc) in ways they may not feel comfortable doing elsewhere, and would like to protect their privacy. Put the phone away, and take some hours to feel and dance to the music.

Come dressed to express. Wear a thematically relevant, fabulous look. We want you sexy and slutty. Fetishwear: latex, leather, harnesses, theatrical costumes, etc., are all welcome. This is your chance to be a version of yourself you can't be anywhere else. This is your stage, so put on a show, honey!

Consent is mandatory. Ask before touching anyone. An explicit verbal "yes" is required within our space. Discomforted body language, silence, or any other response that is not "yes" means NO.

We have a zero tolerance for harassment, unwanted touch, homophobic, transphobic, racist, sexist, or other forms of discriminatory behavior. Those enacting these behaviors will be kicked out of the space and banned from attending future events.**

We create safe spaces together. Speak with a safety monitor (wearing white glowing wrist bands) if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

Let's indulge. Let's embrace pleasure and excess. Let's get decadent.